Hi Guys!!!
First of all, thanks so much for your emails, letters and packages! They strengthen me every time that I read them - especially the emails. But the packages were awesome! I got them at zone conference and EVERYONE came up to me to tell me that I had gotten TWO packages! But we have totally decorated the apartment and I have enjoyed a lot of Hot Chocolate and Sugar Free target crystal light :) It has been awesome too to have music. Good job Dad! Anyway, every little detail and thing was awesome, especially the gifts for Hna. Turcios. She loved the pens and getting a gift from Ruby - even though she wanted to open it right then, I made her wait until we leave on the 24th. :)
We had
Thanksgiving in 2 members homes this week. I do have to say that I like the Turkey here better because its a lot juicier but I missed the Yams (gasp) and mashed potatoes and pies. But it was good.
But, well this week has been hard and its been good. I think those two elements will always exist in my
letters home. I've had a lot of strengthening experiences.
Dad, really quick before I forget - about your comment about the recession and staying positive and grateful - That is one thing that I have learned a lot about here - always staying positive has helped me so much. I don't know what I would do if I didn't. It is sometimes challenging, but there is always something to be grateful for I've learned and it has helped me so much.
This week we found out that a dear dear friend of ours in the church died. She was baptized just four months ago but seemed like she'd been a member her whole life. She was always willing to do anything for anyone and always shared her testimony. But, I know that
Heavenly Father has a purpose for her. She had been sick for a while and had almost died before but Heavenly Father had a purpose for her here on the earth - she needed to hear the gospel. This past week the youth went to the temple. She sent about 90 family names to go with them. I can just imagine her rejoicing with her family on the other side of the veil after they were baptized. It made me think and reflect a lot on the song White Dress. Its such a beautiful song - thanks for including it on the CD. But, I know that the
plan of Salvation is true and that Heavenly Father loves us and has a plan for each of us.
Well, I am sending a copy of the letter that I sent to my mission President and also the letter that he sent to everyone this week. I love you all so so so much and am so thankful for your constant love and support.
I love you!
Love,
Hermana Neff
Letter to the PresidentThank you so much for your letter. And, thank you so much for coming to Thelma’s funeral yesterday. I was touched by your message yesterday and your letter today. I feel blessed to have known Thelma and while I will miss her presence here and her great friendship I am comforted to know that she is awaiting the Lord’s coming in paradise. When we found out about her death I was shocked, but a feeling of peace came over me when we prayed and when I read Alma 40:12. It was a great testimony to me of the plan of salvation.
We had a lot of appointments fall through this week, have had to walk a lot, and think hard about who else we could go visit to the point where I couldn’t think anymore, but Heavenly Father gave us the strength to keep going. It felt good to come home knowing that you did everything that you possibly could have done that day. On Saturday I was starting to get really tired just before consecrated finding time when a letter that my sister wrote me came to my mind. She quoted the General YW president who said, “I can do hard things”. I knew that the only thing there was for me to do was to keep going. So I did – I kept going and forgot about everything that was making me tired. We ended up finding a woman named Nilda who let us come and teach her for just a few minutes. I have a lot of hope for her. She said that she would like to know why there are so many religions when there is just one God. At the end of that day I had forgotten about how tired I had felt that moment and was grateful to Heavenly Father for giving me the strength to keep going.
One other thing that has helped me a lot this week has been reading my journal. Wow, it has helped me so much to build my excitement, recognize my blessings and remind me of my calling as a missionary. I remembered what you said – that our journals are our own personal scripture. I felt prompted to read my journal this week and as I read it I remembered spiritual experiences and remembered how much support and love I have from my family, from the angels that are watching over me, and mostly the love of my Heavenly Father.
I know that the work that I am doing is the Lord's work and I know that while I sometimes might not see the outcome of the work that I do, Heavenly Father will continue to work His miracles.
Thank you President for all that you, Sister Martineau and Tenery do for us!
Letter from the President Elders and Sisters,
Sister Martineau, Tenery and I traveled to Cabo Rojo early Sunday morning to attend funeral services for Thelma Rodriguez, a faithful recent convert who passed away in her sleep Thursday night. As we drove, Sister Martineau began to read from the Book of Mormon out loud, from Second Nephi, chapter 25. She read Nephi's testimony of Christ's crucifixion and resurrection:
Behold, they will crucify him; and after he is laid in a sepulchre for the space of three days he shall rise from the dead, with healing in his wings; and all those who shall believe on his name shall be saved in the kingdom of God. Wherefore, my soul delighteth to prophesy concerning him, for I have seen his day, and my heart doth magnify his holy name. (2 Ne. 25:13.)
I thought of Thelma, who truly believed in Christ. I pondered her life since her baptism only a few short months ago. She was excited to share the Gospel with all who would listen. She willingly bore her testimony in a stake conference and a mission president's fireside, at my request. She was fearless in declaring the truth of the message she had accepted and was now living. She looked forward to the day when her husband and family would accept the Gospel. She was sure that day would come. Although none of them had been taught by the missionaries, they had agreed to accompany her to a Christmas pageant activity in the chapel later in December. She was preparing to attend the temple. She served every way possible in spite of physical limitations and illness.
Thelma Rodriguez was truly a latter-day saint.
My meditations were interrupted as we drove, when I noticed three signs standing close together by the side of the road, declaring the speed limit to be 65 mph, 55 mph, and 45 mph. How convenient. I could choose which law to obey, and drive as fast or as slow as I wanted to!
Then Paul's warning came to mind:
For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle? (1 Cor. 14: 8)
My thoughts turned to the missionaries who taught Thelma. Surely they gave her a clear and certain sound to follow, because she was so deeply and firmly rooted in the Gospel of Christ. I recalled Thelma's story of the first time she heard the message of the Restoration. She and her mother listened to two elders as they introduced the story of Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon. She was intrigued, but wanted to know for sure. She said, "This sounds good, but I want to hear your testimony." They responded, bearing pure testimony of the living Christ, of Joseph Smith, the prophet of the Restoration, and of Christ's restored church. At that moment, Thelma knew, based on clear doctrine and the power of the Spirit, that the missionaries' message was true, and that she must act.
And now, my brethren, I have spoken plainly that ye cannot err. And as the Lord God liveth that brought Israel up out of the land of Egypt, and gave unto Moses power that he should heal the nations after they had been bitten by the poisonous serpents, if they would cast their eyes unto the serpent which he did raise up before them, and also gave him power that he should smite the rock and the water should come forth; yea, behold I say unto you, that as these things are true, and as the Lord God liveth, there is none other name given under heaven save it be this Jesus Christ, of which I have spoken, whereby man can be saved. (2 Ne. 25:20.)
I thought of two humble missionaries, authorized agents of Christ, who taught Thelma plainly that she could not err. They were much like Moses who raised up a brass serpent before the dying Israelites, bitten by poisonous serpents. If the Israelites only looked, they were healed. The brass serpent, of course, was a symbol of Christ, who will heal all those who follow Him, cleansing them of the poison of sin. He is, and always be, the message we teach.
For we labor diligently to write, to persuade our children, and also our brethren, to believe in Christ, and to be reconciled to God; for we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do. (2 Ne. 25:23.)
Thelma humbly accepted the cleansing ordinance of baptism, and came out of the water rejoicing, different, happy. She had a new-found hope of eternal life in her heart, and had experienced the "joy of the saints" spoken of by Enos. (Enos 1:3.) She had entered into the way, had experienced a remission of her sins, and had begun to drink of life-giving water like that which flowed from the rock smitten by Moses, water that eventually would become in her "a well of water springing up into everlasting life." (John 4:14.)
At the funeral services I was asked to speak. I felt impressed to express feelings of love for Thelma, and then to bear simple testimony that Christ lives, and that because He lives, we too will live again. I promised Thelma's husband and sons that they will be with her again, because of Christ. I promised that He stands ready to strengthen, to comfort and to enable us to follow Him, to keep His commandments, in spite of the human weaknesses we all have. And this because He suffered every pain, every illness, and every infirmity that afflicts each of us. Eyes were filled with tears, and hearts were softened, as the Spirit confirmed the truth of the doctrine of Christ.
And we talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins. (2 Ne. 25:26.)
May we never forget that our commission, like that of Moses and Nephi and Moroni, is to invite others to "come unto Christ, and be perfected in him . . ." (Moroni 10:32.)
- President and Sister Martineau